The most important, and often most contentious, consideration of any divorce process is child custody. Each parent wants what’s best for their child, but there can be significant disagreement on what that means in terms of care, living arrangements, and child support.
Ideally, parents come together to reach an accommodation for custody that avoids a long and ugly battle, but in the event that they can’t agree, the courts will make the ultimate decision in the best interest of the child.
In determining custody, courts consider the relative fitness of each parent to care and provide for the child, as well as the relationship between the child and each of the parents and the preference of the child, provided they are old enough to give their opinion.
Legal custody vs physical custody
There are two different kinds of custody:
- Legal custody is the right of a parent to make decisions about a child’s medical care, schooling, or other important factors in their life.
- Physical custody pertains to where and with whom a child is living.
Depending upon what the courts find, they may award sole legal and/or physical custody to one parent, or joint legal and physical custody to both parents, or some mixture of the two.